- Selena Gomez discusses online negativity on the ‘On Purpose with Jay Shetty’ podcast.
- She highlights the intense scrutiny women face regarding appearance and character.
- Gomez admits to reading comments but emphasizes their lack of value.
- She has taken breaks from social media for her mental well-being.
Selena Gomez Opens Up About Online Double Standards
American actress and singer, Selena Gomez, is speaking her mind about the unequal treatment women experience on social media. In a recent episode of the ‘On Purpose with Jay Shetty’ podcast, Gomez, along with her fiancé Benny Blanco, discussed the pressures of living under constant public observation. These conversations coincide with the promotion of their collaborative album, ‘I Said I Love You First’.
Benny Blanco’s ‘Freefalling’ Approach
While Benny Blanco prefers to avoid social media comments altogether, describing his approach as “freefalling through life,” Selena finds it a more challenging landscape.
The Harsh Reality for Women Online
“Women have it much harder,” Selena stated plainly. She pointed out that women are constantly judged on their looks, their choices, and pretty much everything in between. “When I get ready for an event, 90% of the time I just hope to take the picture and sit down. People judge my character, they say I’m not white enough or not Mexican enough.”
Dealing with the Online Noise
Selena admits to occasionally scrolling through comments but quickly dismisses their importance. “Nobody cares about these things when it comes to men,” she said. “Women get judged for everything—from their looks to who they date. We just carry a lot.”
Weight and Constant Criticism
Her weight, in particular, has been a recurring topic of discussion. “Everyone has something to say, and it’s really making me sad. Not even sad—because I’m not a victim, everyone. It just feels a bit bitter, and I feel guilty for saying that, but it’s true.”
Taking Breaks for Mental Health
Gomez has made a conscious effort to step away from social media to protect her mental well-being. “I’m human, so of course I sometimes read things, but most of the time, I ignore them,” she explained. While she no longer keeps social media apps on her phone, she acknowledges their pervasive influence. “I understand the power of social media—it’s just tricky.”
The Bigger Picture: Social Media’s Impact
Selena’s insights highlight a broader issue: the often toxic environment of social media and its disproportionate impact on women. It’s a reminder that behind every profile is a real person dealing with real emotions. It also shows that celebrities have the same problems with online hate, just on a bigger scale. She is not alone, as many women face similar struggles online daily.
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