Here’s a quick rundown of what we’ll cover:
- What ‘withdrawal syndrome’ is and why it happens
- Dr. Fayemi’s insights from his own experience
- How leadership should be about service, not just the title
- The importance of youth involvement in shaping Nigeria’s future
The Truth About Leadership: It’s Not Just a Title
Dr. Kayode Fayemi, a former governor of Ekiti State, isn’t holding back! He says leadership isn’t just about fancy titles; it’s about sacrifice, responsibility, and serving the people. According to Fayemi, many politicians struggle because they can’t accept that power is temporary. This leads to a psychological problem known as withdrawal syndrome. Ouch!
The Psychological Impact of Losing Power
Fayemi emphasized that Nigeria still faces numerous challenges and that everyone needs to contribute to the country’s development. He was speaking at a youth engagement event in Ado-Ekiti, Ekiti State, celebrating his 60th birthday. The event, themed ‘Bridging Generations: Leadership, Mentorship, and Legacy,’ was organized by House of Representatives spokesman, Akin Rotimi. Various youth and student groups, including state and federal lawmakers, attended.
Why Service Matters More Than the Position
Fayemi encouraged young people to stand up for justice and truth, avoiding distractions. He said, “Doing good should not be based on expected benefits; it should be done according to our convictions and what your conscience asks you to do. Whether it is recognized or acknowledged, you should not bother.” He went on to say, “People around me might have noticed that I am not comfortable with leadership because it is not a solo effort. Leadership is a team effort. We are the change we want to see in our lives. It is not what we talk about, but what we actually desire.”
The Struggle is Real: Life After Power
“There are people who are in office, and when they get out of office, they suffer serious psychological withdrawal symptoms because they do not live their life as they did when they were in office,” Fayemi noted. This highlights the importance of living a balanced life, regardless of one’s position. He drove home the point: “That is why leadership is not about the title; leadership is about sacrifice, responsibility, and service, whether in associations, towns, church groups, and others; leadership is about service, not just in the political cycle alone.”
Words from the Current Governor
Ekiti State Governor Biodun Oyebanji, represented by Secretary to the State Government Professor Habibat Adubiaro, praised Fayemi’s years of selfless service. Oyebanji noted that Fayemi’s efforts as a two-term governor, minister, and former chairman of the Nigeria Governors’ Forum have significantly shaped Ekiti State and Nigeria.
Lessons for the Youth
Dr. Tunde Afolabi, the Africa Regional Director of the Centre for Humanitarian Dialogue (HD), urged young people to learn from Fayemi’s career. He emphasized that Fayemi’s journey offers valuable lessons on living a life of purpose and achieving great accomplishments.
Key Takeaways
- Leadership is about service, not just titles.
- ‘Withdrawal syndrome’ is a real issue for politicians leaving office.
- Youth involvement is crucial for Nigeria’s development.
- Living a life of purpose and contributing to society matters.
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